Sometimes your spouse or significant other has not been clinically diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder but may you have some suspicions that they may be a narcissist. While this should not replace medical advice or diagnosis, here are ten signs that your spouse may be a narcissist from the perspective of a family law attorney.
1. They lack empathy: Narcissists often struggle to understand the feelings or perspectives of those around them. For example, they may not show concern when you’re upset or dismiss your feelings as irrelevant.
2. They crave admiration: Narcissists need constant validation and attention. They may seek praise for everything they do or expect special treatment because they believe they’re better than others.
3. They have an inflated sense of self-importance: Narcissists often believe they’re entitled to special treatment because they’re superior to others. For example, they might assume that they should always be the center of attention in a group or that their opinions are always right.
4. They’re manipulative: Narcissists may use lies, guilt, or other tactics to get what they want. For example, they might twist your words to make you feel bad for something you didn’t even do.
5. They lack accountability: Narcissists often avoid taking responsibility for their actions. They may blame others for their mistakes or refuse to apologize when they hurt someone.
6. They are controlling: Narcissists often try to control every aspect of their partner’s life, from their appearance to their social circle. For example, they might insist that you dress a certain way or forbid you from seeing certain friends.
7. They get easily offended: Narcissists can be extremely thin-skinned and take even minor criticisms as personal attacks. They may lash out or become angry when they feel threatened.
8. They are overly competitive: Narcissists often see everything as a competition, and they need to win at all costs. For example, they might try to one-up you in conversations or sabotage your successes.
9. The act entitled: Narcissists often believe they deserve special treatment or privileges because of their status or achievements. For example, they might expect you to cater to their every need or demand expensive gifts for no reason.
10. They lack insight in their actions or how they impact others around them: Narcissists often have a distorted view of themselves and their relationships. They may be unable to see how their behavior affects others or deny that there’s anything wrong with their actions.
Maybe your spouse has been clinically diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or maybe you have a strong suspicion, here are ten tips for divorcing a narcissist.
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